Will Work for Language Skills

I have been working at a hotel here in Konstanz. Cleaning rooms for cash. I was told not to count on getting a job while abroad, which you shouldn't, but I found it relatively easy to get a job here, namely because Konstanz is a tourist town. Lots of restaurants, cafes, hotels, eis cafes (ice cream shop)...well, whatever you like to have around when you're on vacation, it's here.

Schiff auf dem Bodensee

View from the Fahrradbrücke (bike bridge)

Fun in the sun, Rhein River 

I decided to get a job here for some extra cash--I have a few more trips planned before I leave (which is coming so soon!!) and traveling requires money. It's also a great way to learn more about the culture that you are living in. You can meet as many students as you like, from your host country or from all over the world, but you will still only learn about the student way of life this way. You may get lucky and get invited to meet parents and go to your new friends' home towns, but still, you are missing out on at least one facet of your host culture's daily life. The working world.

By getting a job, you not only get introduced to a new side of your new culture, but you really get a chance to practice the language. I can tell you where I'm from, what I study, and why I chose to study in Germany with my eyes closed in German. Because I've had that same conversation again and again with so many students since I've been here. When you are working, you become more exposed to dialects, slang and the everyday language of the people. It's a great way to continue your language studies while earning some traveling money!

http://www.iie.org/en/Programs/Gilman-Scholarship-Program

Traveling Tips...

view of the Algarve Region, Portugal

downtown Faro

I just got back from Portugal!!! I randomly went on a ski trip to the Alps a few months ago, and I ended up meeting these two people who are living in Faro, Portugal. We hit it off and they invited me to visit. And you better believe I took them up on it!!


Anyway, instead of blabbing incessantly about my thoughts and feelings about study abroad, I thought I'd share a few traveling tips I've learned along the way...

1) Make friends!!! 
The more involved you are, the more people you will meet, the more places you have to stay! After almost one year in Europe, I now have free places to stay in Dublin, Brighton, Amsterdam, Tuebingen, Konstanz, Munich, Berlin, Estonia, Australia, Faro, Rome....all over the place!! And all these people have a free place to stay in San Francisco! Networking...it works!! Couchsurfing is definitely where it's at!!
http://www.couchsurfing.org/

2) Cheap airlines:
-Ryan Air
-Easy Jet
-German Wings
-Air Berlin
-Iceland Express
-Wizz Air

Check these airlines periodically, if you can be flexible, you can find great deals. Sometimes German Wings does a thing called "Blind Booking", where you get a list of cities you might visit, then you check off the cities you don't want to go to. Each check adds more to the price of your ticket (so if you are willing to go to any of the cities listed, you will have the cheapest possible flight). You don't know where you are going until your credit card goes through! Super fun! Be careful with these cheap airlines, they have a lot of small print--for example, my friend forgot to print off her Ryan Air boarding passes before she left, and they charged her 40 euros to print the tickets for her. Also, they charge 30 extra euros if you want to check a bag. Stuff like that. If you read the fine print and follow all the rules, you can find really great deals.

3) Trains
Ok, so the Eurorail really just isn't that cheap. At this point, you can find better deals on the airlines. They have all these different passes you can get, that allow you to go on certain trains to specific places within a certain number of days....I haven't found the tickets to be very realistic. And I've heard horror stories about people who didn't sign and date their ticket, meaning the ticket is invalid, and they've had to buy a completely new (and expensive) ticket right there on the train. (By the way, if you ever by a pass or a ticket and it has a place for a name and/or date, fill it in!! It's not valid if you don't!)

If you are traveling in Germany, you can sometimes find good deals on the Deutsche Bahn.
http://www.bahn.de/i/view/USA/en/index.shtml

If you look under "offers" you may find some good deals--every once in a while I found tickets from Tuebingen to Prague for about 60 euros. But if you plan on doing a lot of traveling within Germany, a Bahn Card is definitely worth it. The Bahn 25 Card will get you 25% off of travel within Germany, and the Bahn 50 Card will get you 50% off travel within Germany and 25% off certain travel in other countries. I've used my Bahn Card a million times--one trip to Berlin and it pays for itself. Students under 27 can get the Bahn 50 Card for half price. But if you mostly plan on traveling outside of Germany, I'd say check the airlines.

4) Rental Cars
Hmmmmmm, yea, too expensive and too complicated if you ask me. You can find automatic cars, but most cars here are manual, so if you don't drive stick, you're out. Most cities in Europe have a decent metro, so having a car really isn't necessary.

5) Ride Sharing
For travel in and around Germany, check out Mitfahrgelegenheit:
http://www.mitfahrgelegenheit.de/

This is great!! It's an organized ride share--safe hitchhiking! It was recommended by my program coordinator in Tuebingen, so I tried it out. Basically, drivers that are making a trip from one city to another who want someone to ride with them, for gas money or maybe just for company, will post their trip on the website. And if you're looking for a ride, you can go to the website, check out the trip you want to take, and see if there are any rides offered. If so, you call (or even text) the person and set it up. It's normally quicker and easier than the train (no changing trains and worrying about missed connections) and usually cheaper too. I got a ride to Berlin for 30 euros (Deutsche Bahn charges 60-130 euros) and to the Memmingen Airport (Ryan Air!) for 12 euros. It's a nice way to travel and an opportunity to meet new people! I made a new friend last time I went with Mitfahrgelegenheit, I highly recommend it!

So travel on! It's so easy you have no excuse not to!! Thanks again Gilman :)
http://www.iie.org/en/Programs/Gilman-Scholarship-Program

Praia do Faro, Portugal

Addendum to the "German Stare" post

So I've been thinking about what I said last week, and I'm really hoping I didn't come off as condescending or closed-minded. I didn't mean to put it in an "us and them" context. The so-called "German stare" (a phrase I've heard from other exchange students, I didn't make this one up) is simply a phenomenon that I have noticed and taken very personally.

However, I seem to take a lot of things too personally, and when I step back and look at the whole picture, it's not just about me. People aren't staring at just me, and they're not staring at me just for my tattoos. Yes, my tattoos attract a lot of attention, but that's not just here, it's everywhere.

And one thing I've noticed over the past week, is Germans staring at other people, not just me. I've seen that stare up and down and back and forth....and it's not only to people who look different or weird. People are just interested in other people--it's human nature--and the difference is that here, it's ok to look.

And guess what? I realized that I've been doing it too!

When in Germany...

One thing that is very different about the German culture (if you ask me, I'd say it's the whole European culture) is the way the people will openly stare at you. Watch Fellini's film "Roma" and you'll see what I'm talking about. It's a full-on, 180-degree, as far as their heads will turn stare. And the more different you look, the more they stare.

Now consider the fact that I have very large tattoos on my chest and arms, something that is relatively unseen here in this quiet, conservative little town in southern Germany. Seriously. I have been here for 2 and a half months and I have only seen 3 guys with big tattoos like mine and one girl, who I'm guessing was a tourist. So now that the weather is amazing, I find myself outside quite a bit in tank tops and dresses......and getting quite a lot of stares.

This has been something that's been very hard for me to deal with, ever since it started last summer. It was particularly bad in Rome. Where I grew up, staring is rude with a capital "R". Very very impolite. If you catch someone staring at you in the States, what happens? The second you catch them, they look away as quickly as possible and try to pretend like they hadn't noticed you. Not here. The stare goes on and on.

I know,I know, if I don't want to be stared at, why did I get such huge tattoos? Someone with tattoos like mine is just asking for it. Even with that in mind, I found the German stare to be profoundly disturbing and it used to make me very angry. Sometimes it still does.

But what I try to keep in mind is that even though it is considered rude in my country, I am not in my country. I am a guest in their country. It's me that needs to adapt to their culture and not vice versa. And that's what study abroad is all about!

Struttin' our stuff in Empfingen, Germany

Big tattoos in Barcelona, with my sister and my boyfriend

Have I mentioned how much I love it here??

Blumen am Bodensee

Konstanz is absolutely gorgeous. Especially now that everything is in bloom.
The weather is amazing and the streets are filled with vendors, tourists, and people who just love to be outside.The salty smell of the Bodensee washes over me as I jog along the lake and I couldn't be happier to be here.

view of Kontanz from Switzerland

I was terrified when I first came back, but I was back on my feet in no time. I was scared to death to go to my first class, but I just told myself that I would get through it, just like everything else I have been scared to do throughout this year. And not only was it no big deal, but it's so good to be taking science classes again, that it doesn't even matter that it's in German. The fact that they are science classes makes me want to learn that much more. 

I've really put myself out there and set myself up for challenges this year, especially these last few months. I wish I would have been more aggressive earlier in the year, but better late than never. One thing I can tell you for sure, is that if you study abroad, do not settle for anything, no matter how insignificant you may think it is. My first semester could have gone a lot better (easy to see in retrospect), if I would have pushed to change things that weren't working for me. Now that I have learned that, I am much happier and having a great time. 

Your time abroad is limited and you must make the most of every minute!

On a trail along the Bodensee

on the Bodensee

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Now it's gettin real...

Ok. Back in Germany. Again. Everytime I get to a new place, it feels as if the old place were just a dream, a shadowy fuzzy memory that I'm not sure actually happened. It feels like I never left.

Seeing the boyfriend was good. Leaving him was not as hard as I thought it would be. We'll see each other in a few months. Him leaving Europe was the best thing he could have done for me, because just as it was easy to cling to other Californians here, it was even easier for me to cling to him. When he left, I was forced to put myself out there and meet new people on my own. Which turned out to be more fun than I ever imagined it could be.

But seeing him again allowed me to drop right back into my old ways, and now that I am back in Germany, without him, I am faced with the task of putting myself out there again. I didn't realize how hard it is for me to do that until I just went back and found everything so easy. I had my friends, my boyfriend, my family, all wrapped up into a little package with no effort on my part. I could shop, order at a restaurant, ask for directions--anything I needed to do was easy because I understood how it works.

Now that I'm back, everything is hard again. I don't know how things work, I can't read all the signs, I don't know how to say what I need to say. This morning, I had to go to the Bürgerbüro (literally means citizens office, kind of like the DMV or City Hall) to pick up my residence permit. Just figuring out which room to go to and how the waiting system works was an ordeal in itself.

And classes have started. I am terrified of my science classes I must take auf Deutsch. Welcome to the hard times...but the harder I work for something, the better it feels once it's accomplished.

Nothing good comes easy, right?

It's the little things...

I'm 2 weeks into my stay in the States--I can't believe time is going so fast, but I guess it always does when you are having fun. Again, I don't find it too strange to be back in the States. I guess it's because I've been traveling and moving around for the last year...I haven't had the same bed for longer than a few months since last May!

Also, I think that since my general lifestyle hasn't changed, it's not too hard to adjust to a new place. I guess that part of the study abroad experience is to try and live a different life for a year, take a new culture for a test-drive of sorts, so as to compare it to your own experiences. I haven't been immersed enough in any new culture to really lose my old way of life. University life is, to an extent, just university life, no matter where it takes place (with exceptions, of course).

But along the way to cultural immersion is adaptation. There are little things that are different in each culture, that no matter how you choose to live your life, you will have to adapt to in order to get along in the new culture. Things that I've gotten used to in Germany are...

-hearing foreign languages all around me and all signs in German
-weighing fruit and vegetables at the grocery store
-sorting trash and recycling it like crazy!
-Euros
-paying for your drink or meal after you are finished and having to ask for the check
-smoking allowed in most bars...

...to name a few. So it is these small differences that I am really noticing now. Dollar bills look weird, and so do the power outlets. Hearing English conversations and being able to read every sign and advertisement is now foreign to me. These little things remind me that although I am not living a new life nor am I a new person, I have been able to adapt  to the changes around me and get along just fine :)